Common Misconceptions

Everybody's fighting some form of stereotype and people with disabilities are no exception. The difference is that barriers people with disabilities face begin with people's attitudes-attitudes often rooted in misinformation and misunderstandings about what it's like to live with a disability. There are many obstacles that I face having a disability, but one of the most difficult is dealing with the common misconceptions that go along with it.

The first major misconception I think people have is that "everyone" in a wheelchair is unable to communicate. Just because they use a wheelchair to get around, doesn't mean they don't have the ability to hold a conversation or understand what you're saying. I think this is also true for people with more of a physical disability. In my own experience, some people have gone directly to my nurse or someone standing next to me to ask a question directed towards me that I’m able to answer myself.

Another misconception is that I need some sort of fixing or healing. For example, I’ve had people come up to me in public and actually say they will "pray for me" or wish me a speedy recovery. Being that I am used to it, my reaction is probably kinder than others would be. Usually I reply by just saying "thanks" not wanting to further along a conversation. But I’m sure others may take more of an offense to it.

I think that most misconceptions come with a lack of education, understanding or fear. That’s why by showcasing the abilities of people with disabilities, I can help clear some of the misconceptions out there and bring them to light. Those living with disabilities are valuable human beings who want to be part of something greater just like everybody else.

We have the same hopes and dreams along with being part of the community, not separate. I like to get out in public and talk to people in schools and conferences. It’s also one reason why I have my blog. My goal is to educate others about people with disabilities, reminding others to stop assuming anything based on outward appearances.

Despite all the challenges and struggles I've been through I continue to stay positive. I'm very  creative and like to inspire others. The biggest advice I give to other people is not to take things for granted, you never know what can happen.

Jenni

Follow-Up Post

I want to say I appreciate the comments I received from my last post about searching for feedback. It helped me realize that my blog helps more people than I knew. Also, I don’t always have to hear feedback to know people are reading what I have to say. Just the fact that I’m sharing my story, even if it affects only one person, is very satisfying.

This past month has gone by so fast. I’ve still been doing very well as far as my health. Last month I talked about how my right knee is healed although I’m still having left knee pain. The first time I had an MRI on it, there were signs of a torn MCL. After seeing the orthopedic doctor, he wanted me to get some images to see how it was healing. The injury hasn’t healed any more. He also found that I have some muscle atrophy and my kneecap is slipping out of socket. He recommended a different knee brace than I was using, and it’s been helping with pain.  
 
August 11 was my sisters 30^th birthday and August 16 was my niece Avery’s 6-year-old birthday. Avery had a birthday party this past weekend at an interactive indoor play area. The next day we celebrated both of their birthdays together.

Over the past couple of weeks my dog Brody was acting different. He wasn’t wanting to eat at times, go outside for walks, and looking a little down. We took him to the vet, but they didn’t find anything physically wrong. They prescribed him with some antibiotics, pain pills, and stronger allergy pills than he was on before. Over the past couple days, I’ve noticed he’s been feeling better. I’m glad that it wasn’t anything serious.

Jenni