Letting Go and Moving on

Life is all about change, no matter how much we want things to stay the same. I learned this throughout my experiences after my accident. However, as much as I didn’t want things to be different, I had to realize that sometimes change is okay and in order to accept it I had move on. I found there is an important difference between giving up and letting go.

Some of us, if not all of us has their own painful experiences throughout life. Many of us like to hang onto these things, often bringing them up in ways that are hard to handle. What we don’t know is that by hanging onto those things or experiences can destroy your life in ways you’re not even aware of. It’s best that you let go of them and move on, even though it may be hard to let go of someone you love or something you value. It might even be a situation that dramatically changed your life.

One way on how is to stop worrying about what you have to lose and start focusing on what you have to gain. Decide that no matter what is happening in your life to be happy; not because everything is perfect but because you deserve it. It’s not always about trying to fix something that’s broken but maybe it’s about starting something over and creating something better.

Jenni

 

 “Moving on doesn’t mean you forget about things. It just means you had to accept what happened and continue living…” -Anonymous